Men have many fears when it comes to dating, but perhaps the greatest of them is being labelled uninteresting. Other factors that men get labelled with can be changed, but the uninteresting label is one that is very hard to shake off. It is a huge insult to our personality, and as a result makes us feel disappointed and humiliated.

Given that we build ourselves up so much for dates, and work so hard at looking good in life it is a demoralising blow to be labelled uninteresting. It says so much about our lives up to now that it can really be a huge insult to us and the way in which we have lived our lives. It can identify all the problems we have in our life and put the magnifying glass on us.

The future of our dating can also be scrutinised when we struggle to be interesting on a date, it can be very hard to get rid of the label. Not so much with new women, but it can really give us a psychological issue when it comes to dates in the future.

We will question ourselves when it comes to dates in the future, and we will struggle to get the motivation to keep building ourselves up. If there is any way around the uninteresting label then man is yet to find it, it can demoralise us beyond belief and ensure that we really do carry ourselves a little bit more hunched over.

Men can be labelled fat, or don’t dress well and both of these can be addressed with swift action. They may also be psychological issues but both can be tackled with solutions to feel better about ourselves, both emotionally and physically. If we get accused of not being interesting then it really does play havoc with our self esteem.

What was it about our persona that was uninteresting? What was it that we did wrong? There really is an endless amount of questions when it comes to this insult. So many different ways in which we are emotionally scarred, and so many different questions we have to ask ourselves. And only we can answer them, which are the main problem.

There are no easy ways to take criticism, but the majority of which we can take on the chin, being labelled as uninteresting however is something that is hard to take.